Since you say that sex always hurts at least a little, it's likely that you're not producing enough below-the-belt lubrication. To play it safe, you might want to visit your gyno to rule out any medical problems, such as cysts or infections. But, there's a good chance that you just don't engage in foreplay long enough to become adequately aroused. Next time you and your guy are getting busy, take it slow. Have him lavish attention on all your hot spots, with plenty of genital touching and tongue teasing.
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You start touching each other. Your shirt comes off. His shirt comes off. Then the pants. And then, you realize …. First, take a deep breath.
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If you buy something through a link on this page, we may earn a small commission. How this works. According to the most recent study on penis size, the average penis length is 3. As far as girth, the average circumference is 3. The key is to find ways to make it feel good for all involved. Give these a ride if you or your partner is especially well-endowed. The partner with the V can control how much of the D they get by keeping their legs together when getting banged missionary-style. This creates a tight squeeze that feels like being all in to the penetrator, while giving the receiver just enough. To keep things slippery and wet , just reach down and play with your clit using your hand or a small vibrator. To do it, both parties lie on their side facing the same direction with the well-endowed partner spooning from behind.
I lost my virginity to a man with a huge penis. Watching porn made me uncomfortable so I always just read erotica. I could barely open my jaw far enough to the get the thing in my mouth. We could only have sex in missionary position because everything else hurt so badly.
